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Tammy Yard McCracken: Bow To Being Badass Or Don’t Bow

Tammy Yard McCracken of Kore Krav Maga:

When you bow in to a martial arts class, who or what are you bowing to?

If you are teaching, who are your students bowing to? Do you think they are bowing to you? If you do – that’s a problem. Bowing is a ritual and with it come a series of artifacts. And yes, as an instructor, you have put in hours, days, years of training to reach this place in life. Teaching other people is not a right of your training; however, it is a responsibility.With all the different things you are teaching your students, the most important one is to teach them they can – and maybe should – be training to become better than you…

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Tammy Yard McCracken: I’m Sorry Doesn’t Belong In Self Defense

By Tammy Yard McCracken of Kore Krav Maga

From a post on her new blog, Beautifully Dangerous:

When I teach self-defense or Krav, and I hear “Sorry!” on the training floor the participants have just served up a teaching moment.

No one is bad or wrong for saying I’m sorry. It’s hard core social programming. I’m Sorry is our universal request for impunity.  When we make contact we didn’t intend or the contact was experienced as “harder” than we purposed by our training partner, we say sorry. 

The social programming is being applied in the wrong context. Every time someone says I’m Sorryduring training they are unconsciously undermining their training and the mindset they are working to wire in.

Maybe it’s worse. Maybe all the I’m Sorry business on the mat is poisonous. Little sips of toxic thinking day after day, class after class.

On the mat, this apology gets heard by your brain as apologizing for being powerful. Fuck that.

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I also think there are problems with helping/being helped up off the ground by a training partner. Not quite the same thing, but related.